Community Guidelines

Version 2026-08-25. These apply to everyone — attendees, hosts and their teams.

For everyone

• Show up, or release your spot. Rooms are small. If you can't make it, cancel — the next person gets in.
• Consent is the whole game. No unwanted contact, no pressure, no following someone after an event, online or off.
• No harassment, no slurs, no bigotry. This includes "jokes".
• Don't out people. What someone shares in a room stays in that room unless they say otherwise.
• This is not a dating platform. Treating it as one — collecting contacts, pursuing attendees romantically after they've disengaged — will get you removed.
• Be honest about who you are. Impersonation and fake credentials are grounds for removal.

For hosts

• Describe the event honestly — the format, who it's for, what's included.
• Publish the venue and time before anyone pays.
• Honour your refund policy, and refund in full if you cancel.
• Handle what happens in your room. If something goes wrong, act at the time.
• Never use applicant data for anything but running your event. The professions and contact details you receive are shared with you under a limited, expiring grant.
• Don't discriminate on caste, religion, disability, sexuality or gender identity. Formats restricted by gender for safety reasons (for example, women-only events) are permitted and must be stated up front.

Reporting

Every event and group page has a report link. Reports come to Thinnai, never to the host — including reports about a host.

Tell us at support@thinnai.app if you'd rather email. In an emergency, contact the police first (112).

What happens when a rule is broken

Depending on severity: a warning, removal from a group, suspension of an account, or permanent removal from the platform. Hosts whose groups repeatedly generate incidents lose the ability to host.

We record what we did and why.